I’m Sarah Willocks, a psychotherapist specialising exclusively in addiction — substance and behavioural — and in supporting the families affected by it.
I understand addiction personally and theoretically.
Making the first contact is scary. For many people, it’s the first time they’ve admitted they need support. That takes courage.
I work with the full range of addiction — alcohol, drugs, gambling, prescription medication, and behavioural addictions including phones and social media. If you are not sure whether what you are experiencing counts, please get in touch for a free, no obligation chat.
When you do contact me, you’ll be met with compassion and understanding. Your addiction has served a purpose — understanding what that purpose has been is part of the work.
Many services won’t work with clients who are still in active use. I take a different approach. I believe that equipping you with tools, understanding what to expect, and beginning to imagine life on the other side can start before you stop. It makes the unknown less daunting. It builds mental preparedness for what’s ahead.
We’ll discuss the specifics of how that works when we speak.
Living alongside addiction brings its own particular kind of fear, despair, anger, and frustration. Your experience as a family member is different from the person who is using — and it requires its own specialist support.
There is a lot of contradictory advice out there. Enable or don’t enable. Confront or don’t confront. Set boundaries or stay close. Families are often left not knowing what to do, and feeling alone in that.
We will work together to understand your current situation, identify where you need support, and give space to what it actually feels like to watch someone you love struggle with addiction.
You can’t look after anyone else if you fall apart first.
I am a psychotherapist specialising in addiction. I know addiction from both sides — from years of study and clinical work, and from my own experience. That combination underpins my approach.
I understand that substances and behaviours feel good. That’s why we do them. If you’re contacting me, it’s likely the negative aspects have started to outweigh the positives. That’s where we begin.
We work together to understand why you’ve come to therapy, what you’d like to be different, what your goals are, and how you’d like me to work with you.
I take a direct approach. I don’t believe addiction is a disease you’re powerless over. I believe that with the right support and tools, you can recover and go on to lead a meaningful life.
My approach is underpinned by radical responsibility and honest conversation. Radical responsibility means taking ownership of our choices and their consequences. Not blame. Not shame. Agency. The difference matters — blame looks backward, agency looks forward.
Stopping is hard. There is nothing to run to anymore, and you have to learn to sit with the full range of human emotion — the good and the bad. We work to equip you with the knowledge, tools, and understanding to do that.
Before moving into private practice, I worked for several years with complex needs and dual diagnosis clients, led two modules on an MSc in Safeguarding, and worked as a Senior Family Practitioner in the NHS supporting families affected by addiction.
I hold an MSc in Psychology (GMBPsS), a Diploma in Integrative Counselling, and am completing a postgraduate qualification in Addiction Medicine. I am accredited with BACP and NCPS, and hold Advanced Practitioner status with Addiction Professionals.
Sessions are online via Zoom. £80 per session.
I hold one funded place for those who cannot afford private therapy. Please get in touch directly.
If you are in immediate danger, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E.
116 123 — Free, 24/7
samaritans.org
Text SHOUT to 85258 — Free, 24/7
giveusashout.org
Call 111, select the mental health option — 24/7
0300 102 2470 — Free, 24/7, under 35s
papyrus-uk.org
0800 776600 — Free, 24/7
talktofrank.com
0300 999 1212 — 10am–midnight daily
ukna.org
020 7498 4680 — 1–4pm and 6–9pm daily
famanon.org.uk
Free peer support groups for people affected by any addiction, and for their families and friends. Groups run online and face to face across the UK. No appointment needed.
smartrecovery.org.uk
A free national charity supporting families affected by a loved one’s drug, alcohol or gambling use. Provides information, an online forum, and a directory of local support groups.
adfam.org.uk
If you are ready to start, or just want to ask a question, contact me. I offer a free 30-minute consultation.